RE: Bjorn just doesn't care, but I do.

[Bjorn Ciggaar <ciggaar@warande.net>]

At 10:48 13-3-02 -0500, Kev from VT wrote:

> >From: Bjorn Ciggaar <ciggaar@warande.net>
> >Subject: Re: "Jeff's Demise" ???  Not even close.
> >
> >Well, IGTC is not my social network, let's make that clear.
>
>Well thanks for making that clear.  I was clouded on that.
>Why are you here again?

To talk about the fucking WHOOOO!!! Not Jeff House!

>Sorry to have creeped you out, but you're clearly taking that statement way
>too literal.
>I have my immediate family.
>I have my maternal and paternal family.
>I have my work family.
>I have my family of friends here where I live.
>I have my family of friends from where I went to school.
>I have my family of friends from where I grew up.
>And,..... igtc has been part of my Who family.
>Get it??

You can call it that. But do you treat them as family? Well, just let me 
say this, you can do WHATEVER you want, but when it comes to your "family" 
business (like this whole discussion about uncle Jeff), don't discuss it on 
this list (I really don't wanna read it).
I'm thinking about making a filter deleting all e-mails containing "Jeff" 
and "IGTC".

> >But most of you don't *really*
> >know me (or Jeff, for that matter).
>
>And who's fault is that?
>I've met you, and feel that I "know" you (what ever that really means).  But
>the way you're acting lately, maybe I really didn't know you.

Oh, please don't care about the way I am acting... You know what, I guess I 
should leave this list too, and just leave all of you discuss me behind my 
back while I am doing more important things (like graduating and getting my 
work done here).

>And I for one find it a huge shame.  This list has always been the refuge
>from other lists that like to bash and abuse posters....like you have been
>bashed and abused on other lists.

So you know I can take some. :-)

>To me Bjorn, if you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem.

I did not join this list because of therapeutic reasons.

>You may be angry now at several people, but does that mean you should not
>give a fuck about everyone on this list?
>Call me a naive idealist, but hey, I'd rather be that then the opposite.

I'm not angry at several people. I'm just sad that things are going this 
way on IGTC.

> >I think I'm going to make a difference between my private
> >life and IGTC.
>
>I thought you just said that's how it already was for you???
>If anyone reading this can't distinguish between their private life and this
>list, please seek help immediately.
>Really.

I just wanted to point out that IGTC isn't a big part of my life here. For 
some it seems that way, because of all the postings I've been reading. And 
I guess that goes for *many* mailing lists. People take it much too 
personal. It's just a message board from crying out loud...

Oh man, this is just too "Lifehouse" (or "Matrix") for me... Some people 
just seem to be lost in the grid, and need to jump back into the real world...

Bjorn